RESCU: Why are there so many good looking, accomplished, sexy girls who are chronically single?
Samantha Brett:
“There are a number of different schools of thought for this one:
• Some say there are not enough men in this town (statistically this is correct, but you have to know where to look in order to combat this)
• Modern women are too focused on their careers and therefore don’t have time to find a man (also known as the “alpha female” syndrome)
• Modern men are commitment-phobes (who believe “why settle when there are so many women out there” … especially since these women are so willing to sleep with them so early on)
• Women are delaying marriage to focus on themselves.”
RESCU: Is there a ‘Man Drought’?
Samantha Brett:
“No – women have just become more picky! We all have lengthy checklists, deflect every guy in the bar who attempts a pick-up line on us (poor gents), and many women prefer to spend time inside a yoga class with their girlfriends then make the effort to go out and find a man.
If you actually look hard enough and in the right places, you will see that there are an abundance of men out there, ripe for the picking.
Place such as
• Hardware stores
• Mechanics
• Sporting events
• Happy hour at your local bar
• The gym by the weights section…
The choices are endless! But they won’t be if you continue your old patterns of hanging out with your gal-pals. Instead, why not make it your mission for 2010 to go once a week to a man-friendly hang-out.
Bring a hot single girlfriend along for the ride and make sure you don’t stand in the corner, but in the centre of the room with open body language and a big great smile to boot!”
RESCU: We’ve heard about your amazing ability to help women find and keep a great guy. What can we do to make sure we never spend another Valentine’s Day as a single girl?
Sam’s MAN PLAN!
1) Write your “Ideal Man List” on a sheet of paper. Put it under your bed and forget it exists.
2) Stop whinging and get off your couch!
3) Go where the men are
4) Stop trawling bars
5) Get a sense of humour!
6) Do something outside the box – dance, swim, box, climb mountains – whatever tickles your fancy
7) Employ weapons of mass seduction: Knee high boots, red lipstick, mini skirts etc – just not all at once!
8) Be willing to speak to men first … don’t wait for them to come up to you
9) If you are still hung up on your ex, do my 30-Day Ex Detox diet and pronto!
10) Get ready to meet your soul mate … just don’t put any pressure on him to commit (at least not for the first three months!)
You can also read more dating articles/info by Samantha Brett at www.samanthabrett.com
