It’s a new year, and time for you to revamp your bedroom style. Lady Friday is here to introduce 12 new sizzling moves, one for every month…
Stuck in a rut? Lost the feeling of novelty and excitement? Fear not – this year will be your hottest ever.
Just to guarantee it, here’s a guide to the 12 most sizzling new moves you can try in the bedroom. Whether you’re in a long-term relationship, dating or just having fun, it’s a sure thing that these will set the bed aflame.
January – It’s bushfire season, but that doesn’t mean you need to suffer from the heat. Take to the bath! Doggy-style under a cool shower is a sure-fire hit, but spice it up a bit with the use of a detachable shower head to play against you. If you’re not up to standing, kneel in some cool water together, using the shower head on yourself and your partner.
February – It’s too hot to do anything energetic – so try out tantric. Have your partner sit cross-legged, then wrap your own legs around them and rock, gently, in their lap. It hits great spots, minimises full-body contact if it’s 30+ degrees – simply arch your back away from them – and can last for ages.
March – Invoke the Kama Sutra in a sizzling position that’s centuries old but still fresh – it’s called the Wheel. Sit opposite each other while they enter you, but then wrap your legs around their torso. Lie back, hold yourself up with your hands, and have them place one of their legs over your stomach, twisting your pelvis. Take your time – the Kama Sutra is a marathon, not a sprint – and get a copy to use for diagrams.
April – Explore angles. Have your partner lie down flat, while you straddle – but don’t sit straight. Position yourself with your hips slightly tilted, with one leg extended up and the other back, or on some other variation of the theme. Stick with the one angle, or swivel as you see fit. The change in angle causes almighty shudders and your G-spot will thank you.
May – A surprise twist on chair fun is the order of the month. The usual is your partner sitting on a chair while you sit on them, but tailor it to your tastes. Lean back to give a better view, raise your legs to their shoulders to alter the position, or hold yourself onto them using a belt or tie – it’s all up for trial.
June – Do an amazing spin on an old favourite. You know all about reverse cowgirl – partner lies down, you straddle them while facing their feet – but give it a bit of a kick by making your partner sit up, while you lie forward over their legs. This gives them a great view of your back and bum, and all the better if you like hair-pulling or spanking.
July – Use the cool weather as an excuse to make your partner work for it. Lie on your front or back with your legs tight together and make them physically try to gain access – it’s sexy, powerful and keeping your legs tight together gives great tightness.
August – Show off your limberness and strength in a particularly advanced position that practically deserves a medal. Lie on your back, and have your partner kneel and lift your legs to their shoulders. Grip their thighs as they enter you – it sounds mad but is worth the effort. Just make sure you have proper head support.
September – It’s getting warm, so let’s get playful. A fantastic game to play? Make your partner detail exactly what they’re going to do to you, how they feel about your body, and how much they want it before letting them take the plunge. Descending by inches while holding down their wrists is a great way to make them beg.
October – It’s the season for mini-breaks, so go away with a few naughty surprises in store in your suitcase. Wear your heels in bed, and insist on exploring every single surface of the hotel room. Make them kneel beside the edge of the hotel bed, and enter you while you lie, legs up or down depending on how you feel. Now’s the time for hot lingerie to make the sight even more inspiring.
November – In the lead-up to Christmas, things get a little hectic, so slow down with some intimacy. Do some traditional missionary, but have your partner lean on one knee rather than simply lying on top, with the other leg extended down the bed. This creates a new angle – grab onto the bed-frame with your arms to give you leverage.
December – Get busy quietly and quickly at a Christmas party. Find somewhere extremely intimate and lean forward over a table or chair, letting them enter you – but raise one leg to make things a little tighter, and grip on for balance.
Are you ready for 2013?
Lady Friday xx
Taking the pillow talk out of the bedroom, every Friday…
