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When everything seems to be going wrong in every possible way, you can need a bit of help to power through. This month, we asked for notes from Bella Gill on how to transform bad luck into good change.
First tip: change the way you’re thinking about the ‘bad’ phase!
Maybe this is life’s way of emptying out what you no longer need. In order for you to let go, you have to feel really uncomfortable for a while.
Don’t use this phase as a reason to give up. Take up the challenge. It’s worth it, and you’re taking steps towards what you really want. That’s exciting, and takes courage.
Sometimes life takes us down Wrong Street. It happens to everyone! The trick is not to fall into expecting things to fail. Don’t get caught up in a ‘Woe is me, nothing ever works out’ attitude. This way of thinking WILL take away your power to turn things around.
You’ve written your lists, focused your energy on what you want to create, dealt with your own baggage, and opened the door to the new. Still, you feel like you’re caught in a phase that just won’t pass. What do you do now?
The first step is to confront and let go of your fear/ negativity. Know that all you need to do is keep going. Keep moving towards your goals.
Change isn’t always instant. We have to keep at it. When you decide to move things around in your life, it can take time to see results. Along the way, it can feel like everything is actually getting worse, and sometimes it does – but this is what needs to happen to make way for the new.
Trust in the process. Detours happen, and a lot of the time they are necessary.
You WILL progress! Use your intuition, and listen to the feelings and ideas you’re getting about things. There is always help when it comes to turning the wrongs into rights.
Blessed Be,
Bella
